Showing posts with label self development. Show all posts
Showing posts with label self development. Show all posts

Friday, February 12, 2010

Build Life

Every thought that occurred, whether it's good or bad, will build your character. Just like bricks are arranged one above the other, to build a house - as well as your mind set on top of one another. Every time, every time when you are thinking. Whether intentionally or not.

Who you are, what you achieve, you find satisfaction, how your perspective of yourself, it all depends on the thoughts that build your life.

Every thought, every time, can strengthen the building yourself. No one worth any achievement suddenly appeared. Everything must be built. Step by Step. And you have the power to establish what kind of life you want. The power comes from the place you live, the choices you make, the actions you are doing.

Your choice determines what kind of building you make.

Currently, you are building your life. Currently, you are making a difference in your life path. When this is the golden period to change your future. Have you use it ...?

Tuesday, January 19, 2010

Know motivation

Success is the desire of each person, there is one important thing in reach, namely motivation. Motivation can be led to discipline, perseverance and others. Motivation is the spirit of the private body that wants to succeed. motivation is a desire and energy integration in achieving a goal. With the desire of people know where to go, with the energy of people will be able to move what is her desire to achieve it. Motivation such as air for life. Very important role for the souls who want to succeed.

Principles of motivation

  1. motivation is a psychological process by arousing emotional.
  2. proceed without conscious motivation.
  3. individual motivation, so how to motivate each person may vary or also from time to time subject to change. But the core of the motivation comes from yourself (or someone who motivatornya motivated).
  4. Motivation is a social process, which requires external factors
Source of motivation:

  • Internal motivation is motivation from within, from the feelings and thoughts to himself. People who have an internal motivation, will see themselves in a positive way.
  • External motivation is motivation from the outside. Examples of motivational literature, environment, daily life, etc.

Tips internally motivated:

  1. Create Rewards. If I do A then will get a mansion. In this way we are going to be motivated to do A.
  2. Take small steps always. Sometimes to get something big to small steps.
  3. Create Troubles. This is the opposite of the first. for example, if I do not do B then the position does not rise. Of course we will be motivated to take action B.
  4. Organize and plan the steps. By having a plan, as if you have a plot and the plot toward the goal. Indirectly this will motivate to achieve goals.
  5. Create pullers towards the goal. Suppose we want pilgrimage, MMT print large size images ka'ba. This is just an example only.

Motivation is influenced by the urgency of the need, motivation is also influenced by the perception of action to meet a need.

In strictly prohibited motivated to disparage, criticize in public, attention is half-half, instead watching yourself, do not care about the little things. Motivation can also fade because of the doubt in the decision by the management (if the organization).

Friday, January 15, 2010

Time spent

Time spent.
How will you spend the last hour ..? What would you do in the next hour ..? Is this the end of the day you can see everything with a satisfied return - for having achieved SOMETHING?

Achievement is not something that comes to your own. Achievement is something you do with the minutes, hours and days that you spend. Now is the time to do it.

Success is the fruit of awe, joy, and pride. However, efforts to create success is more often through a boring thing. Bored, because you can not
doing something else. A successful field star, has spent countless of time just for practice.

The hours were spent behind the scenes, and led them to victory and success. This is true in any field. After all, everyone has the same amount of time each day. But some of us use it more effectively than others. What would you do with your hours today?

Wednesday, January 13, 2010

Value Self We

At one point, in a small park there is a grandfather. Near the kaket there are some kids who are busy playing the sand, forming a circle. The old man then approached them, and said:

"Who amongst you who want to cash $ 50,000!!" All the children stopped playing and simultaneously raised his hand as he put a sweet face full of smiles and hope. Grandpa then said, "Grandpa will give this money, after you all see it first."

Grandpa is then wrung it until worn. In squeezed continued until a few moments. He then returned to ask "Who is this money going with this shabby?" The kids were still excited about a show of hands.

"But, if my grandfather stepped on what? Then, the old man dropped the money into the sand and stepped on with shoes. On foot and in hard suppress up dirty money. >A few moments, he then took back the money. And grandfather again asked: "Who still wants this money?"

The children held up their fingers. Even up to invite the attention of every person. Now almost everything in the garden was raised a hand.

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Resensinet friend, the above story is very simple. But we can learn something very valuable from the story. Whatever made by the grandfather, all children will still want the money, Why? because the grandfather's actions will not reduce the value of the gift money. The money is still worth $. 50,000

Resensinet friend, often, in this life, we feel shabby, dirty, depressed, does not mean, trampled, no power over what happens to our environment, for all the decisions we take, we feel vulnerable. We also frequently complain of all examinations given him. We often feel useless, worthless in the eyes of others. We feel the Quran, the ignored and not cared for by family, friends, even by our environment.

But, believe me, whatever happens, or * to happen *, we will never lose our value in the eyes of God. For him, worn, dirty, distressed, stained, there is always time for forgiveness, and forgiveness.
We remain invaluable in the eyes of God.

The value of ourselves, do not arise from what we clothe, or from what we can. Value ourselves, will be judged by our character and temperament. Behavior. no matter how we are trampled by the injustice, we will remain contested, if we remain consistent to keep our attitude.
Friend, morality is the flower of our lives. How valuable is a human. With morality, compassion and love will always follow us, and is the capital of life.
People who have no morals, although he berharta, has no value. Although she was beautiful, but if a bad attitude and no morals, it is useless for her beauty. Similarly, a high-ranking people, without morals, he became a hated man.

Monday, January 11, 2010

The world gives us Focus

if you looked at yourself a little, the world would appear cramped, and your actions were so stunted

But if you look at yourself a big, wide world of visible, you also do the things important and valuable

Your actions are a mirror of how you see the world. While the world you are not wider than your thoughts about yourself. That is why we are taught to biased self-positive, so that we can see the world more beautiful, and act in accordance with virtues that exist in our minds.

Yet the world does not need any assessment of us. He echoed what we want to hear. If we are afraid to face the world, in fact we feared to face ourselves

So no matter whether we are biased positive or negative about yourself. Exceeds the above, we need to honestly look at ourselves as we are. and the world is the reality show that had been hidden in our judgments.

The world gives us Focus

if you looked at yourself a little, the world would appear cramped, and your actions were so stunted

But if you look at yourself a big, wide world of visible, you also do the things important and valuable

Your actions are a mirror of how you see the world. While the world you are not wider than your thoughts about yourself. That is why we are taught to biased self-positive, so that we can see the world more beautiful, and act in accordance with virtues that exist in our minds.

Yet the world does not need any assessment of us. He echoed what we want to hear. If we are afraid to face the world, in fact we feared to face ourselves

So no matter whether we are biased positive or negative about yourself. Exceeds the above, we need to honestly look at ourselves as we are. and the world is the reality show that had been hidden in our judgments.

Friday, January 8, 2010

Self sharpening

A cutter sharpening his ax to collect wood. A hunting knife sharpening and tightening the bow. A writer whittling a pencil. They all have to update the equipment. They are you and me. This is a simple principle of productivity. Of course, not many trees would be felled by an ax which was dull and worn. There will be no game that can be conquered by the arcs that have been aged. There is no one word can be written from a broken pencil. So, what should we hone in order to still reach personal life and career full and abundant? You have a body that would erode old age. Also intelligence
which does not mean much immediately behind the progress of time. Fistful and liver
diburamkan easy conscience by the dust of the world. So we should no care other than that body has always been a comfortable home for the soul. Nothing we need to hone your mind and skills in addition to always be used to open the door of prosperity. Well, we have nothing but sharpen the conscience that allows us to hear the song of happiness in this life.

Tuesday, January 5, 2010

Dream Maps

Dreams will lead us where to go, how to act and behave. Our dreams will know where the end point of the struggle. And soon after reaching that dream, we can replace it with another dream that has not been achieved.
Friend, in reaching for dreams, we need strategies and maps. So that when walking and met with resistance, we can choose to jump or go around it and take another road. Without changing the dream, just change the direction of the road course.

Imagine you are in the middle of the ocean on a speedboat.
Fifty miles in front of you is an island, and in
the island there is everything you want and aspire.
All of your dreams. And the only way to get it
everything is up to the island. The island was in the back
horizon. But the horizon is where ...?

The problem is you do not have a compass, maps, radio, telephone,
and you do not know which direction to the island. Wrong direction
will make you stray far from the island of dreams,
while all around you who look just sea and sky.

Within two hours, you may have reached the island of dreams.
But if you have the wrong direction - you can run out of fuel
before it can reach the island of dreams.

Life without a clear purpose, without knowing and understanding
usefulness of your life - is the same as in the entry island of dreams.
All your dreams can actually be achieved, but to achieve it
you must know the map of dreams. That is what, where, and how to achieve it. You absolutely know the direction to achieve it. Find the map you are now - to achieve your dreams. Create seteliti and accurate as possible - and then you live your boat direct to the island of dreams ... For the rest, you grabbed it, holding her, and smiled with pride, "This is my dream, and I've got it."
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My friend, stop for a moment and let us pray for one another, praying for our friends, our parents, people we love, and do not forget this web admin:). Hopefully the map to the dream life we designed, Allah blessed. We are aware of our bodies, our lives and our breath, is entirely hers. There is no single event that happened in our lives, without ridhoNya. Good luck friend ... dream it, we've longed to embrace, and we hug.

Sunday, January 3, 2010

Firmness

When King Louis XVI was overthrown from the throne and thrown into prison, her son who is a prince of the royal heir was kidnapped by people who mengkudeta kingdom.

The prince faced with things that are most morally repugnant. They think, if the prince be affected in worldly temptations it will not be able to reach his destiny as king.
Every day, the prince was treated to a lavish variety of foods that number is much, wine, the prostitutes are very erotic, even obscene words and rough that is not fit to say the noble like him.

Day by day, until finally after six months, they gave up. The prince was not tempted at all to the temptations of the world. They also asked why the prince was so strong. The prince said, "I would not have done horrible things like that, because since birth I was destined for a king".

We must have the determination to defend our dreams. Can not be denied that the way to the ladder of success with thistles and thorns.

Then we can have bagaiamana determination? Most importantly we must have a paradigm or a positive self-image to ourselves. Who are we? What is our destiny in this world?

You're being yourself is the most perfect God. Your destiny is to devote himself. His name in the world. Whatever your dreams, fight on behalf of him. Therefore, any obstacle will not stop you.

If he wanted to lift you, no one can knock you down. Likewise, if he wanted to drop you, then nobody in this world that can lift you.

Friday, January 1, 2010

Opportunity In Life

In a fertile field, there are 2 pieces that lay seed. The first seed said, "I want to grow up. I want my own roots planted deep in this soil, and shoots mine rose above this hard land. I want to spread all mine shoots, to greet the spring. I want to feel the warmth of the sun, and the softness of the morning dew on the leaf buds of mine. "

And the first seeds of the program grows, the more towering.

Seedlings of both murmured. "I'm afraid. If I planted my roots in this land, I do not know, what will meet down there. Is not there a very dark? And if I shoot mine teroboskan upwards, not later shoots beauty will be lost mine? This mine shoots would be torn apart. What would happen if my buds open, and the snails trying to eat it? And certainly, if I grew up and broke, all kids will try to remove me from the ground. No, it would be better if I wait until everything is safe. "

And seedlings were waiting, in solitude.

A few weeks later, chickens scratch the ground, find the second seed said, and eat immediately.

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People, indeed, there is always a choice in life. There's always plays that we must live. However, often we are in pessimism, fear, doubt, vacillation and indecision, we've created yourself. We are often persuaded by the reasons for not going to go, do not want to look alive. Because life is a choice, then, face it bravely. And because life is a choice, then, choose wisely.
Companions, each option is always there accompanying risk. But do not let fear, doubt and indecision, we stopped.

ps. "Open every door of opportunity that came knocking, because, who knows, it did not knock the door twice."